Would you feel comfortable

masturbating in front of your partner?

Women seem to be so much more confident now, would you feel self conscious performing such an act either for pleasure or to show your man how it's done? No point asking us guys lol - we just do it whenever and wherever it pleases anyway

Not in the early stages of the relationship no.

It's what we men do is it not?

I appreciate Lacy's honesty, but I differ because no one is coming even close to a relationship with my fine self unless we know eachother inside out & that includes feeling comfortable with eachother sexually. So sure, why the hell not

I don't get stage fright lol. Nothing like having an audience hey.

Can't she do it for me instead?

I feel a case of performance anxiety comin on.

Don't see what the big deal is personally. I figure you are both into each other and naked so why the hell not? And sides, if she's returning the favour it's the perfect opportunity to observe and see what gets her going cause after all she knows her body best.

Just do it

And how long have I been waiting to use that icon pmsl

Actually no, I'd feel incredibly embarassed. Unless I was huddled under the doona in complete darkness and he had on earmuffs.

Stands next to Mish and nods in agreement.

But if you guys want to put on a show for our benefit, feel free

No; which is another reason why I failed Zeph's damn survey I'm guessing. Maybe in a long term relationship but even then I don't think I would be totally comfortable.

I put yes to this question in the survey hun and it sure didn't help my score lol. I obviously don't look at my fruit and veg the way I should be pmsl.

I think it's actually quite erotic personally but very few women seem to feel comfortable with it. Shame really because it's a big turn on for a guy but there's no point pressuring someone into doing something that they don't feel comfortable with.

Once a man has witnessed you give birth, everything else pales in comparison thanks!

yes feel fine doing that, allows partner to learn.. and should arouse the viewer, which increases passion of the moment.

I'm yet to meet a woman prepared to do so. Not that I go around asking any female who happens to grace my bed can I just point out. It just seems to be something they prefer to keep hidden away from the rest of the world. Their own personal little secret. For some reason though they don't seem backward in coming forward, asking to watch a guy perform.

I can't lie on my back without doing it lolol. I seen girls do it, and yes, WHAT A TURN ON.

I'm all for it. If you are in bed together anyway, with naked bits jangling all over the place, what's there to be embarassed about?

again, agree with u ozzie, surely best way to invite your partner to learn and explore..... better than them guessing how you like to be rubbed etc....