The D & S thread

Dominant, submissive or vanilla. Which takes your fancy, or can you possibly be a little of each?

um I don't know lol so I guess we can interpret that as submissive? Or does that make me vanilla. I don't know Been too long since I got any so I really can't make a call.

Mish by the sounds I'd say vanilla but ain't nothing wrong with that. Just means you have lots of new tricks to learn if you ever feel the need to experiment

I'd say dominant but hey show me a woman who wants to take control and I'm in.

Normally get dealt the dominant card but let's hear it for women confident enough to step up to the plate and take charge. Makes a nice change that's for sure. Have no trouble being the sub if that's her thing.

Hands Dave the dog collar lol

Mate, that's a whole other thread entirely

Most people, apart from those heavily into the scene, are probably switches. I think it really depends on the person you are with and how comfortable you are with them.

So what would you classify yourself as then Benj?

Probably a switch. Not into the heavier side of it but the dominant role can be a hell of a lot of fun

Alright, at the risk of getting laughed at, what's a switch? Be gentle people.

No stupid questions here Mish love.

A switch is someone who likes to play both sides of the game. Sometimes dominant, sometimes submissive. They 'switch' roles so to speak. Make sense?

Got it! Thanks Dave. OMG, not only am I having fun, it's educational at the same time

Hmmmm

Notices the guys are hanging out in this thread with tongues hanging out but too to go into the other one.

I'll bite. What other one Max?

The other new one I put up in 'Bone Closet'.

Dare you Chaz lol. After all, you and Dave have someone to hold hands with now to quell your fear!

As long as the change up aspect is there and you ain't stuck in one role then yeah it's all good. I'll say switch too, although after reading the anal thread I might want to change my mind

Quite happy to lie there and be bossed around if that gets her going lol. It's a sacrifice, but someones got to do it right?

With reference to the 'other' thread lol, what happens if she wants to dominate you in 'that' particular area

Then I would be like Benj on a plane. Fingernails dug so tightly into something that the marks leave a permanent scar pmsl

:rolls eyes: & sets the record straight!: :chuckle:

I do not instigate anal play.. & if I ended up with someone who doesn't get into it, it wouldn't faze me, I only enjoy it if he wants it! lol I do like variation in the bedroom however... arghh not sure I made that better

Umm Benj is not only entirely cute but smart too...

Switch

Up until a few months ago, I would have said I was a Domme bitch. But recent times have revealed I am, in fact, a switch.

Truth be told, I am not into pain, definately don't like it inflicted on me - and I couldn't humiliate someone even if they wanted me too.

Now I have to go and have a look at the other threads lol. So glad I haven't met all you lot face to face, I have revealed far too much of myself in an attempt to reignite the threads lol