Stimulation vs penetration

Subject: Stimulation vs penetration Thu Jun 04, 2009 3:56 pm

Which is better for you personally?

Subject: Re: Stimulation vs penetration Thu Jun 04, 2009 9:06 pm

stimulation gets me "there"....... don't really get aroused by immediate penetration, does any woman?.... and even during penetration, either cock, finger, etc... it is better WITH stimulation..

Posts : 73 Join date : 2009-05-25

Stimulation, or for those men who are talented and can do more than one thing at once, both Stimulation vs penetration 992662

Posts : 433 Join date : 2008-03-17 Age : 54

<chuckles at how damned hot these threads have suddenly gotten>

Both, but all in good time for the latter.. forplay is Not overated. :chuckle:

Posts : 414 Join date : 2008-03-17 Location : Melbourne

Think most guys would tell you penetration, where as women would quote stimulation. That's why you have alot of frustrated people doing themselves in bathrooms after sex because the two genders can't open up and communicate.

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Why can't I have both?

Posts : 391 Join date : 2008-03-18 Location : Hell

I think it's pretty common knowledge that most women can't achieve an orgasm through penetration alone. Have, but I could count the instances its occurred simply through that act on my fingers, with some left over.

But penetration AND stimulation at the same time?

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Every single time baby hehe

Subject: Re: Stimulation vs penetration Sat Jun 06, 2009 2:26 pm

I think the appeal of going via penetration for guys is that it is something we can't do by ourselves lol. And it makes us feel all masculine and empowered.

Posts : 225 Join date : 2008-03-18 Location : Melbourne

Men and women are simply hot wired differently. You only get a problem when one partner fails to realise this and leaves the other one hanging. Plenty of ways/positions to achieve both penetration and stimulation if you ain't a lazy bastard.

Subject: Re: Stimulation vs penetration Mon Jun 08, 2009 8:10 am

Think there is a time and place for both. Only real difference is that one allows you to be closer to your partner and share the moment together I guess.

Posts : 22 Join date : 2008-10-26 Location : Southern USA

*sigh*

I think I need to stop answering these questions. *lmao*

I ...guess I am different.

*ponders for a moment if I really wanna be this honest*

I think there are times for both.
I am usually in a great relationship... and I know I can get what ever I want. Hahaha!
(...sorry ...but it IS the truth with a great sex life and wonderful communication and ...matching libidos.)

Some times I do want to take time ...and actually make love to every inch on their entire body... *sigh*
...but other times ...honestly ...I just want a fast, hard fuck. *blush*
Sometimes I really only want a quickie with NO real foreplay.
I just want to feel the lust and passion of that moment.
I adore that. And I KNOW ...he will make it up to me later. ;o)

...a good quickie is far better to me than a none-e. Hahaha!

I ...ahem ...am usually already aroused at the mere thought of my partner.
'Looks' given from across the room....
...texts or phone calls before we get to each other, etc.

Usually I am waaaay past ready when we actually get together.
(And yes ...this was even after being with him for 15 years and living together.)
The mind is a powerful thing ....and that anticipation ...when you KNOW whats coming...
Hahaha! ...and OMG cumming.

*No ....I did NOT really just say that*

*lmao ...slaps self for using such sophomoric humor*

....any way ...8 out of 10 times...
...I am honestly just ready for HIM!
Right at that moment!

...and ...I am shutting up now...